Believe nothing, no matter where
you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless
it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
--Buddha
How much of our lives are determined
by destiny and how much free will?
I once had a vision that much of our lives were totally predetermined
by our magnetic charge. I saw us all as tiny sub molecular particles
acting according to the laws of physics, such that every second
of our lives was predetermined. When I read someone's future,
I begin to feel that charge in a vibration and I get a vision
of an event in the future. Usually these visions are glimpses
of a moment in the future, like the vision I had of two people
kissing at an airport, which turned out to be a real moment
in the future that those two people knew they were in love.
In 1984 I had a vision of a large Scorpio sign appearing in
my life during the fall of 1987. At the time I was just starting
to date a man who three years later I married and with whom
I bore a daughter with the sign of Scorpio.
Our ability to see these detailed visions of the future leads
me to believe that a large part of our lives are set in motion
many years earlier. Perhaps the intuitive part of our brain
feels the fine vibrations of the world around us; and like the
waves made by a rock thrown in a pond, our brain can follow
this magnetic (energy) path over time and see an important event
in the future. When certain events are turning points, like
the birth of a baby, a death, a national disaster, they give
off stronger waves, which the intuitive brain can detect.
The Power of Our Expectations
I've learned from reading people that our expectations influence
our future. Our expectations determine the career we follow,
the money we make, the satisfaction we feel, and the people
we are attracted to and the people we attract -- our friends,
enemies, colleagues and lovers. So all we have to do is have
great expectations for ourselves and we suceed?
Why We Need to Know Our Unconscious Expectations
While our expectations affect our future, changing our expectations
is a monumental task. Why? Because most of our outlook is unconscious.
Unless we are in touch with our unconscious thoughts, it is
nearly impossible to self determine our lives. We think we are
in control, only the "we" that is steering our ship
is out of our reach as long as we cannot feel our unconscious
thoughts. So we must get in touch with all of us if we are to
change our fate.
Dreams and Psychic Visions
Our dreams give us a sense of our unconscious mind, so if you
want to know what the captain of your ship is thinking, try
to remember your dreams. When I read you, I see thoughts from
your unconscious. So, for example, when I read a woman who had
called to ask the intentions of the man she was seeing, the
first vision I got was of a five year old girl clinging to the
pant legs of her father. I didn't see the man she was seeing,
I saw the exact image of her father when she was five and could
describe him to her. I also saw the girlish dress she was wearing,
her hair at the time, and so forth. Then I looked again, and
saw that the little girl in the vision knew he would leave her
and her mother, that he was a philanderer and could not take
care of anyone, much less a child. I hardly needed to check
out the particular man my cllent was inquiring about. She was
seeking in a man the father who would not leave. But as long
as she wanted to remain a little girl, she would always pick
men like her father,and the men she would select would always
leave.
So how do I find the right partner?
In the example above, the woman has to become aware that when
it comes to love interests, she behaves and thinks like a little
girl. She may be a top level executive in her job, but when
it comes to love, she feels and thinks like a child. She seeks
a man who makes her feel like she did as a child, she feels
all the same anxieties about him that she felt as a child, and
he will, in the end, do what her dad did.
To find happiness, she must first know herself deep inside,
know that she is still a little girl. Then she has to suspend
looking for a man, while she concentrates on growing up emotionally.
This process will involve giving up the child's dream to have
what she never had which will involve grieving. Then she must
pull herseslf together and parent herself alone. She can start
by focusing on developing good friends and fulfilling pasttimes
that her soul loves. Finally, when she is ready, she can seek
a mature relationship with a man that begins with friendship
and an equal give and take. A child wants to be parented, and
if the man she seeks is a child himself who also wants parenting,
then they can not survive as a couple. Examples that come to
mind are Diana Spenser and Charles Windsor -- two children who
each needed a parent and ultimately came to loathe one another's
inability to be what the other needed. He found it in Camilla,
and perhaps Diana would never have found it.
